While driving on our way to a Mall, wifey and I laughed on how a radio jockey said in jest, “ang pag-ibig habang tumatagal ay tumatabang” (love as time passes by becomes less passionate) and advised the girl caller not to fall from a man’s sweet talks.
There is an element of truth to what the lady jockey advised, but I would like to point out 2 dimensions of the topic.
- Love is not all emotions and
- The passion can be kept alive inside marriage
Love Is Not All Emotions
The goose bumps in courtship will not last a lifetime, and love does not conquer all. That’s a fact. Those who believe that the magical feeling will last forever is headed for disaster. Once you are settled down, got married and living together for at least 5 years, you become more practical than magical. Children and financial obligations changes your perspective. It does not mean, however, that you are no longer in love.
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We would like to share to everyone the Pre-conceive ideas of Couples that build Walls and Hindrances toward a Strong Relationship as what we learned from a seminar in our church in 1992.
Find out if you agree in one of these.
Pre-conceive ideas of the Husbands toward their Wives
When the HUSBAND
- gives his opinion, he is setting things straight.
- talks on the phone, it’s an important call.
- asks the wife firmly to do something, he is showing leadership.
- repeats a request more than once, he is patiently reminding her.
- is late to an appointment with his wife, he has a good excuse.
- is late to a dinner, he was busy.
- buys something, it’s because it is essential.
- makes a mistakes on their bank account, he feels it’s no big thing.
- is sick, he deserves moment by moment attention and sympathy.
- doesn’t want to make love, he has good reasons.
- reads while she tries to discuss something, he can do two things at the same time.
- does something stupid, he feels it is an honest mistakes.
- has extra-curricular activities, he needs to realize his dreams.
- works at the church, he is doing the Lord’s work.
When His WIFE…
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