This debate has been going on for several decades, and a clash of mindset occurs between those who believe sex should be done inside marriage, and those who take the more liberal side. While I am not here to tell you which side to take, allow me to share my observation on the matter.
As a human being, we have to contend with memories. A good sexual experience will surely be stored in our hard drive, just as good food or good vacation. If human nature will take it’s course, a person will keep on returning to the “good” experience.
Having said that, what if the good sexual experience happens to be another person? i.e. not your spouse or regular partner
One of the debatable issues among lovers is the time line of engagement. What is ideal? Long or short engagement?
Wifey and I had a long engagement. We courted for 9 years before we finally tie the knot. Well, early marriage is not an option because I am jobless and still studying.
A question so often asked is how long is too long and how short is too short in courtship. The answer is variable, and there is no right and wrong answer. It really depends on your situation. Just allow me to share with you questions that will lead you to an appropriate answer to your situation.
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