Will You Marry Me?
June 1st, 2009
Fall in love all over again with these vids.
Do you remember the time when you asked her to marry you? Read more…
Long or Short Engagement
May 15th, 2009
One of the debatable issues among lovers is the time line of engagement. What is ideal? Long or short engagement?
Wifey and I had a long engagement. We courted for 9 years before we finally tie the knot. Well, early marriage is not an option because I am jobless and still studying.
A question so often asked is how long is too long and how short is too short in courtship. The answer is variable, and there is no right and wrong answer. It really depends on your situation. Just allow me to share with you questions that will lead you to an appropriate answer to your situation.
What a husband says and means . . .
May 5th, 2009
We would like to share to everyone the Pre-conceive ideas of Couples that build Walls and Hindrances toward a Strong Relationship as what we learned from a seminar in our church in 1992.
Find out if you agree in one of these.
Pre-conceive ideas of the Husbands toward their Wives
When the HUSBAND
- gives his opinion, he is setting things straight.
- talks on the phone, it’s an important call.
- asks the wife firmly to do something, he is showing leadership.
- repeats a request more than once, he is patiently reminding her.
- is late to an appointment with his wife, he has a good excuse.
- is late to a dinner, he was busy.
- buys something, it’s because it is essential.
- makes a mistakes on their bank account, he feels it’s no big thing.
- is sick, he deserves moment by moment attention and sympathy.
- doesn’t want to make love, he has good reasons.
- reads while she tries to discuss something, he can do two things at the same time.
- does something stupid, he feels it is an honest mistakes.
- has extra-curricular activities, he needs to realize his dreams.
- works at the church, he is doing the Lord’s work.
When His WIFE…
Happy Wife, Happy Life
April 22nd, 2009
A “happy wife = a happy life”. Simple but powerful statement. In my experience, life is pleasant when wife is happy and pleased. The sting of a scorned woman, or unhappy wife is not only awful, in some situation, it lasts a lifetime.
Man and woman are wired differently, and if man will recognize a woman’s unique needs, and attempt to meet them, there will be fewer problems in marriage. You may say, “but woman should also understand men and attempt to meet his unique needs”, I agree 101%. But to avoid the chicken and egg question, the “man” being the head in a relationship and family, should take the initiative and lead.
What are woman’s needs?
Every woman are different so his man should exert considerable effort to understand her. But let me share with you at least three generic needs.
- The need for a nest
- The need for affection
- The need for a leader
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