LCM 2.0

We would like to share to everyone the Pre-conceive ideas of  Couples that build Walls and Hindrances toward a Strong Relationship as what we learned from a seminar in our church in 1992.

Find out if you agree in  one of these.

Pre-conceive ideas of the Husbands toward their Wives

When the HUSBAND

• gives his opinion, he is setting things straight.
• talks on the phone, it’s an important call.
• asks the wife firmly to  do something, he is showing leadership.
• repeats a request more than once, he is patiently reminding  her.
• is late to an appointment with his wife, he has a good excuse.
• is late to a dinner, he was busy.
• buys something, it’s because it is essential.
• makes a mistakes on their bank account, he feels it’s no big thing.
• is sick, he deserves moment by moment attention and sympathy.
• doesn’t want to make love, he has good reasons.
• reads while she tries to discuss something, he can do two things at the same time.
• does something stupid, he feels it is an honest mistakes.
• has extra-curricular activities, he needs to realize his dreams.
• works at the church, he is  doing the Lord’s work.

When His WIFE…

• disagrees with him, she is  challenging his leadership.
• talks on the telephone, she is wasting time.
• asks him firmly to do something, she is being officious.
• repeats a request more than once, she is nagging.
• is late to their meeting,  she has no excuse.
• is late cooking dinner, she is inefficient.
• makes a purchase , she’s spending him into bankruptcy.
• makes a mistakes on their bank account, she is stupid and is going to land them both in jail.
• is sick, she is expected  to be up and well by the second day.
• wants to wait until another time ( for intimate moment),  she is just trying to get out of it.
• reads while he is talking to her, she doesn’t care about his things.
• does something stupid, she should laugh when he says, “If you had a brain, you’d be dangerous.”
• wants to use her talents, she belongs to the kitchen.
• works at the church, she should be home taking care of him.