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While driving on our way to a Mall, wifey and I laughed on how a radio jockey said in jest, “ang pag-ibig habang tumatagal ay tumatabang” (love as time passes by becomes less passionate) and advised the girl caller not to fall from a man’s sweet talks.

There is an element of truth to what the lady jockey advised, but I would like to point out 2 dimensions of the topic.

1. Love is not all emotions and
2. The passion can be kept alive inside marriage

Love Is Not All Emotions

The goose bumps in courtship will not last a lifetime,  and love does not conquer all. That’s a fact. Those who believe that the magical feeling will last forever is headed for disaster. Once you are settled down, got married and living together for at least 5 years, you become more practical than magical. Children and  financial obligations changes your perspective. It does not mean, however, that you are no longer in love.

Is it ok to engage in pre marriage sex?

This debate has been going on for several decades, and a clash of mindset occurs between those who believe sex should be done inside marriage, and those who take the more liberal side.

Fall in love all over again with these vids.

Do you remember the time when you asked her to marry you?

The troubles of life like money, in-laws, kids, career can easily eclipse what you passionately have for each other..

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One of the debatable issues among lovers is the time line of engagement. What is ideal? Long or short engagement?
Wifey and I had a long engagement. We courted for 9 years before we finally tie the knot. Well, early marriage is not an option  because I am jobless and still studying.
A question so often asked [...]